16-year-old discovers her "dad" isn't her biological parent, her mom becomes obsessed with finding out which family member spilled the beans: 'I refused to tell!'

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    A mother and teenage daughter have an argument on the couch.
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    "[Am I wrong] for refusing to tell my mom who told me her husband isn't my dad?"

    I (16f) always wondered why my 'dad' treated me different to my siblings (15f, 12m and 11m). Even though me and my sister are just over a year apart in age he would love on her and was super supportive of her and her interests.
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    He was her cheerleader when she needed one and he made sure to be there for all her plays. He's the same with my brothers. But he's never been to any of my recitals. He never
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    showed an interest in the stuff I liked. Whenever I went to him for cheering up he brushed me off. And he spoiled my siblings by buying them toys, candy or whatever but he never got that stuff for me.
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    When mom wasn't home I was either pushed to sleep at a friend's house or a family member's house or he'd do a movie night or game night with my siblings and told me to stay in my room.
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    I cried to my mom so many times about it and she told me he treated me that way because we were the most alike and we butted heads. But I never fought him or disagreed with him. I never got the time with him to do any of that.
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    So when a relative told me a couple of months ago that he's not my dad. My mom was seeing him and my bio dad. Dad knew about my bio dad and said he wasn't going to keep
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    sharing her so mom chose him and then when she found out about me he said she could keep me regardless but if I wasn't his he wanted a kid of his own. They DNA tested me and I'm not his so my sister was born so close to me because of the promise.
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    After hearing the truth and seeing proof I confronted my parents. He told me now that I knew I could start calling him Drake instead of dad. My mom was not as yay she knows though. She has asked me every day, sometimes multiple times a day,
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    who told me. She was pestered by several family members to be honest and she had no idea which of them said something and I refused to tell. Even if it was disrespectful to do it behind her back I'm glad I found out
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    now. It also opened up the truth that I have no college savings like my siblings and Drake doesn't want me to stay a day after my 18th birthday. He said I was never his, he never loved me and he wants at least one year of just HIS family.
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    All my mom cares about is finding out who. She tried to ground me and she told me I needed to say because nobody should tell a kid stuff like this without a parent knowing and being there. She said hiding who
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    they are also makes them sh because they are encouraging a minor to keep stuff from a parent intentionally to avoid consequences for the person.
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    A teenage daughter puts her head in her knees while having a difficult conversation with her mother on the couch.

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